ABOUT BECKY

It is hard to believe Becky has been gone for over three years now. I still miss her every day. I miss calling her and having her answer the phone and me getting to say "Hey Sol" to have her respond "Hey Kim!" I think we all thought if anyone could beat cancer it would be her. She did for 14 years. Wow. There were so many signs and seemingly promises that she would be healed which made it all that more confusing at the time. However, since then, the whole thing has made me look at God in an even bigger light or way. It is kind of hard to explain, though.

I remember when I was in the 6th grade and Becky was in the 5th grade and my sister, Beth, started dating her brother, Mike Sollie. Beth said Mike had a little sister about my age and she thought we would really hit it off. They introduced us and the rest is history. We remained friends for her lifetime. Actually it was more like big sister/little sister. I always felt like she was my responsibility to look after and to try and set a good example for her. Sometimes I succeeded, other times, I didn't. I did succeed in getting her and Ken Clark (my cuz) together. That is one I am proud of. He was definitely the love of her life. Becky and I shared a lot of good times togerther and great memories. Too many over too many years to share here.

Anyway, today is a rainy day and I seem to be thinking about her and reflecting more on our time together. I remember after my first husband died, praying that no one else I knew would ever have to go through what we had been through. It just wasnt' meant to be. It is okay because I know one day, we wil be together again in the big beautiful beach in the heavens!!!!

Love you Becky and miss you deeply!!

Kim

HAPPY FRIDAY AND WEEKEND!!!!

Well, for two "retired" people, even we are ready for the weekend!! Woo hooo!!! Not sure why, it doesn't change our routine much! We did have a great start to our weekend with two visitors, Karen McLeod Parks and Clay Howell.

Karen and Clay are both originally from Dothan but were here in Auburn to see their kids and for Karen, to attend the funeral of her uncle. Clay came to surprise his son, Hap, and be here for his Fiji initiation last night. Kind of a special father/son time. We were glad to be a part of it in some small way. If you don't know Karen's son, Stewart Parks, you are one of the few! He is a very beloved Auburn student. He is an awesome young man. Karen and Kirby are celebrities for being his parents and I even get a little notoriety just because I know them all!!!! Living in Auburn is great, because we often get to be a part of moments like these.

Auburn is obviously about athletics (obviously recently :) ) but for us, living here has been so much more. We have been able to reconnect with so many high school and college friends as their children have followed the path to Auburn. We have been so honored that most don't seem to mind hanging out with us. It is so funny to see how much like their parents they are for the most part. The advantage of not having kids is we can tell all kinds of stories on their parents but can't have the deed returned!!! I promise, we use discretion--most of the time!!!!

Anyway, another "rambling" for the day. Visits from special friends just led to these thoughts today and once again reminded me how very blessed we are in the richness of friendship. Thanks y'all!!!!

Toomer's After the Game

AMAZING!!!! No other way to explain it! I think there were more people than the 2000 New Year's celebration. Spence and I parked in the parking lot across from Momma Goldberg's and walked the rest of the way. I am so glad we did. People were walking in masses, all moving towards Toomer's Corner, cheering all the way. A few trucks and cars drove by, blowing their horns to add to the celebration. War Eagles and hugs from perfect strangers or at least a "high five" were a part of the migration to The Corner. INCREDIBLE ATMOSPHERE!! It really is hard to explain what it was like. It was great to see students and community come together to celebrate.

I must also add, Jordan Lee is the AU HC Queen for the National Championship Year. How awesome for her! We will all probably be the only ones to remember but we are Sooo okay with that!!! She and Jeremy were celebrating too, but we didn't see them there.

It really feels good today to be a part of the Auburn Family. I so appreciated the class and praise for God both Chizik and Cam expressed and displayed in their post game interviews. God doesn't have favorites but we can do all things through him who strengthens us!!

Well. have a great day everyone. Enjoy the moment!!! I gotta go watch the highlights, AGAIN!!!!

Icy Day In Auburn BUT still National Championship Day!!!

We woke up this morning to ice all around in the trees, on the roof and on our cars. Much quieter with no traffic and we already have a fire in the fire place. Today is also the big day we have been waiting for, BCS National Championship. Spence randomly pulled out a t-shirt from his drawer and it was his Oregon shirt we bought several years ago when we were visiting there. Significance of this random act, we don't know but we assume it means we will kick there little duck quack feet or whatever ducks have!!!

For Cassie, Bee is inside and has had her morning treat. She is now asleep on her bed inside, sound asleep. We are dog sitting a friends dog--they went to the game so we are like the animal kingdom right now.

By the way, I am thinking about running another half marathon but this time with a friend in Sarasota. Any words of advice for me. She has been very convincing. I keep thinking 2 1/2 months to get ready!! Oh well, I can walk some of the way as well. I'm thinking go for it, beats sitting on the couch. Tennis and half marathons--gotta be a connection somewhere!!!

Have a safe day out there everyone!!

Kim

I Have No Idea What I am Doing!!

Well, this is my first blog and I really have nothing special to say tonight. I just want to have a blog and see what happens. My guess it will be interesting if I can come up with anything valuable to say. I am happily married to a great guy we all know and love as Spence. He puts up with me which is more than I ever expected anyone to be able to do!!!! I am a retired educator with most of my years spent being a high school counselor which, by the way, was never dull.

Hopefully, I will have something of interest to say at some point. Feel free to ask me questions. I am no longer a professional counselor but have a lot of experience that might be helpful in some situations. No promises though!!!

Well, I am going to go for tonight and see what happens! Thanks for reading!

Kim